I am tired of being single..... Pt 1

I need to go meet more people in person or online in order to achieve my goal. Beyond the tech, gaming and other Linux websites I visit. Besides posting here. For those who know my situation, I have a good bit going for me but 3 things going against me. They are huge enough and even though all are in my control, I can only control them so much. I have great friends. There are only a select few that I keep in contact with on a regular basis and because of distance and my situation only a few of those friends I see in person. I also have the best Family anybody could ask for. For those who know my situation know what family members as far as how I am related to them I am referring to. Now platonic friends are good to have, and acquaintances are good to. Coworkers past and preset that I am still cool with as well as customer's I know, make a good resource for networking or whatever else. You also can't say enough about family. Well you could, but as long as it is nice. But that doesn't change the fact that I am going to 37 in a couple of days and I am still single with a dry spell that has lasted longer than: pick a name of any famous desert. Now I am not saying that this was completely my fault. some of where I am are circumferential. But Mostly it is on  me. So as my title says, I am tired of this and Staring Now. I am going to make some changes to make sure my dry spell ends soon without the 3 things being to much of an issue. I hope at least for the women I meet/date. So I end by saying that I don't have a plan yet or some kind of way to tackle this like a project manager, but lets see what happens. This is only pt 1. Whether it be daily, weekly, monthly I put up parts 2,3,4 as many as I need to, who knows. Hopefully the numbers won't need to go that high and if there is no post other than this one here on this subject that is also bad. I just hope not. We shall see.............